怎么让这一年成为最棒的一年!|How to become the best of you this year
- Little L
- Jun 23
- 4 min read
Updated: Jul 2
往下拉阅读中文版。

Hey there, friend! 👋
Want to know a fun secret? You can make this year the best year of your life — not with magic, but with some really cool tricks that anyone can do.
Let’s learn 3 simple ways to make your year awesome — fun, meaningful, and full of smiles!
🛞 Step 1: The Life Cake
Imagine your life is a cake with 9 pieces. Each piece is something important in life, like:
🍎 Health:
Body (Are you moving, playing, staying active?)
Mind (Are you learning, thinking, feeling okay?)
Soul (Do you feel happy and peaceful inside?)
❤️ Relationships:
Family
Friends
(If you have: Romance, maybe?)
💼 Work & Dreams:
Your mission (What do you want to learn or do?)
Money (How you feel about saving/spending)
Growth (Are you getting better at things?)
Give each piece a score from 0 to 10, based on how you're doing now. Be honest — it’s not a test!
Then, add one extra score for JOY. Are you enjoying your days?
🎯 Now ask: Which 2 or 3 areas do I want to feel better about this year?
🎉 Step 2: The 12-Month Celebration
Imagine it’s exactly one year from now, and you’re having a party! 🥳 You’re smiling and saying, “Wow! I really did it!”
Ask yourself: “What do I want to be proud of 12 months from now?”
Maybe you want to say:
✔ “I made new friends.”
✔ “I ran faster!”
✔ “I learned how to sing in English!”
✔ “I got up earlier.”
Pick 1 big thing for each area you care about, and write it down. That’s your “celebration goal”! 🎈
Bonus trick: Add “while having fun along the way” to your goal. That way you enjoy the journey, not just the result.
🗓 Step 3: Design Your Ideal Week
Here comes the magic calendar 🪄🗓
Take a blank weekly planner or calendar. Fill in the basics:
🛏 Sleep time
🍽 Meals
🎒 Work
Now ask: “When do I want to play, rest, exercise, learn, hang out with friends, or sing?” Create your Ideal Week — what a happy, balanced week looks like for you. Be realistic, and leave space to chill. This shows you where your time goes, and how to fit in the things that matter most.
💡 One Last Thing…
You don’t need to be perfect. No one can be perfect!
But if you try these 3 steps — the Life Cake, the Celebration, and the Ideal Week — you’ll be closer to a year that feels bright, balanced, and joyful.
And remember: You get to shape your life — one week, one day, one tiny choice at a time. 💫

嗨,小朋友大朋友!👋
你知道吗?想让今年变成你人生中最棒的一年,其实不需要魔法,只需要一些超级简单又好玩的“小方法”。我们一起来学3个有趣的步骤,让你的每一天都变得开心、充实,还充满能量!
🛞 第一步:人生蛋糕分配🎂
把你的人生想象成一个被分配成9块的蛋糕🍰,每一块代表生活中一个重要的部分:
🍎 健康:
身体(你有没有常运动?体能怎么样?)
思维(你学到了什么?有没有思维认知上的突破?)
心灵(你感到快乐吗?有没有很平静的一些时刻?)
❤️ 关系:
家人
朋友
爱情(如果你已经有了的话)
💼 工作和梦想:
任务(你最想学的或完成的事)
金钱(你对花钱存钱的感觉)
成长(你有没有一点点变得更棒?)
给每一块蛋糕 打一个 0 - 10 分,看看你现在在哪些方面做得还不错,哪些需要多一点努力。
再在这个分数上面,加一个“快乐”的分数:你每天快乐吗?
🎯 然后选出 2–3 个你最想提升的领域,画个星 🌟!
🎉 第二步:一年后的狂欢
想象一下,现在是一年后的今天,你正在和朋友庆祝:“哇,我真的做到了!”你会希望自己说什么?
✔ “我交了新朋友!”
✔ “我的马拉松跑得更快了!”
✔ “我会唱英文歌了!”
✔ “我终于能早起了!”
每个你想改善的领域,选出一个最想达成的状态,写下来。我们把它叫做“理想中的自己”。
✨ 小tips:在目标后面加一句:“别忘了要开心!”这样你就会在实现目标的路上,也感到快乐,不只是冲着终点跑!
🗓 第三步:理想周 📅
来打造一张属于你自己的“理想周计划”吧!在一个空白的日历上,先写下你的:
🛏 睡觉时间
🍽 吃饭时间
🎒 上学时间
然后问问自己:“我什么时候想运动?想玩?想学点新东西?想和朋友聊聊天?”
安排出你理想中的一周。不需要完美,开心舒服就好。😊
🌟 最后一句小提醒
你不需要做得完美,没有人可以做到完美。但只要你愿意试试看这三个方法:
✅ 画出你的人生蛋糕
✅ 想一想你一年后的庆祝时刻
✅ 安排你的理想时间表
你就已经在努力变得更闪亮啦!记住:你可以用每一天的小决定,一点点建造你喜欢的生活。 🌈