3个问题,解锁你内在的无限潜能|Unlock Your Unlimited Power
- Little A
- Jun 10
- 4 min read
Updated: Jul 4
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A message about self-belief, fear, and letting yourself grow
Sometimes, it feels like life is just unfair. Some people are born into money. Some get better schools, better support, better chances. The world can seem rigged — like no matter how hard you try, you’re already behind.
And honestly? That feeling is not wrong.
Yes — things like race, gender, class, and family background make a difference.Yes — some people really do start with more help. Yes — the system needs to change.
But here’s a question that’s a little harder to ask: What if part of what holds us back isn’t just outside of us… but inside?
✦ The Secret Beliefs We Carry
We don’t always notice it, but sometimes we tell ourselves quiet stories like:
“This dream is too big for someone like me.”
“I shouldn’t try too hard, or people might think I’m full of myself.”
“If I shine too brightly, I’ll make someone else feel bad.”
“If I succeed, I might be alone.”
Where do these thoughts come from?
Not from facts. But from feelings.
Often feelings we picked up a long time ago — in childhood.
✦ Staying Small Felt Safer
Maybe when we were younger, we learned that:
💬 Being quiet = being good
💬 Not asking for much = being loved
💬 Not standing out = staying safe
So we started playing small. Not because we’re lazy. But because we were scared of what might happen if we really went for it.
✦ Fear Doesn’t Always Look Like Fear
Sometimes fear looks like...
Skipping the audition
Not applying for that opportunity
Saying “I don’t care,” when we really do
Pretending something “isn’t for us”
And then we say: “Maybe I’m just not meant for that kind of life.” But what if we are — and we just don’t believe it yet?
✦ Other People Are Scared Too
You might look at confident, successful people and think: “They must be braver than me.” But sometimes, they’re scared too — just in a different way. Some people chase big goals because they feel like they have to.
They believe:
“If I’m not impressive, no one will notice me.”“If I’m not amazing, I won’t be loved.”
That belief isn’t healthy either — but it does push them to try.
✦ Real Power Comes From Permission
Success isn’t just about working hard. It’s about giving yourself permission:
🌱 To grow
💡 To change
📣 To speak
🌟 To be seen
It’s about asking:
“Who told me I needed to stay small?”
“Am I afraid of what might happen if I actually succeed?”
“What would it feel like to take up more space?”
✦ Try Asking Yourself:
What dream have I been hiding because I’m scared people won’t approve?
Is there a part of me that feels safer not trying — just in case I fail?
Who am I protecting by staying quiet, “nice,” or invisible?
✦ The World Needs You — Fully You
The truth is: your full self isn’t too much. Your dream isn’t too big. Your success won’t take away from anyone else. You don’t need to stay small to be loved. You’re allowed to grow.
In fact, the world gets better when you do.

你有没有这样想过:
“我这么普通,怎么可能做成什么大事?”
“那些成功的人都是家里有钱、有背景吧。”
“我没有人脉、没有天赋,努力也没用。”
“算了,我不行。”
这些念头听起来是不是有点熟悉?它们藏在我们心里,看起来像是在“看清现实”,但其实,恰恰就是这些念头在偷偷拦住我们往前走。
🚫 “这世界对我不公平”,真的吗?
当我们告诉自己“反正我不行”,我们就可以安心地不去尝试,不去冒险,也不去面对失败。这样想,真的比较轻松,因为失败就不是“我不够好”,而是“世界太不公平”。但你有没有想过,真正困住你的,可能不是世界,而是你心里那个悄悄说话的声音:
“我不够好。”
“我不配。”
“别人才值得成功。”
🧱 那道看不见的墙,是你自己建的
小时候,有人告诉我们:
“太出风头不好,会遭人讨厌。”
“你就乖乖的,不要惹事。”
于是我们学会了:
🔸 不主动发言
🔸 不表达想法
慢慢地,我们好像变成了“看起来很好相处的人”,但心里却越来越不敢大胆做自己。
🎯 可是你想做的事,真的“不属于你”吗?
你有没有这些时刻:
💡 有一个好点子,却怕被嘲笑,不敢说
👥 遇到很欣赏的人,却退缩不敢靠近
📩 有机会争取,却自动选择放弃
然后你告诉自己:“反正这本来也不是我的。”但你心里其实知道 - 你并不是不想试,而是太害怕了。
🙋♂️ 问自己几个简单的问题:
🔍 如果我真的成功了,我会不会害怕被人嫉妒?
🔍 如果我变强了,会不会有人不再喜欢我?
🔍 如果我不再讨好别人,我会不会失去什么关系?
如果答案是“有一点点怕”,那就代表,你并不是真的不行,你只是还没有完全允许自己变得更强、更自由、更真实。
🔓 所谓“松绑”,是从心里开始的
你不需要等所有人都认可你,才有资格去追梦。你只需要先相信 - 你值得拥有更大的空间。
你不需要等别人来鼓励,才敢行动。你可以是第一个为自己加油的人。
🛤️ 最后想告诉你:
真正的成长,不是“突然变得超厉害”,而是慢慢拆掉心里的那道栅栏,学会对自己说:
“我想试试。”
“我也可以。”
“我不完美,但我不该被局限。”
你不必等世界来邀请你,你本来就值得绽放出属于自己的光。