性是我们来到世界的方式｜Sex is how we came to this world

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Did you know? Every person in the world came here through a magical process called sex. It might sound funny or weird, but it’s nothing to be ashamed of! It’s just how life works.

Just like trees grow from seeds, and puppies come from their moms, we are born because two people came together in love. It’s part of nature, and it’s perfectly okay.

But Wait…

As you grow older, your body starts to feel new things. You might feel curious about hugs, closeness, or liking someone a lot. That’s called a natural instinct — something your body does all by itself.

Animals have instincts too. A hungry dog eats. A sleepy cat naps. We humans have the same basic needs: food, sleep, love… and yes, sex too.

But Humans Are Special

Here’s the amazing part: animals follow their instincts. But humans have something even better — we have choice.

That means even if you’re super hungry, you don’t need to grab food like a wild animal. You can sit down, wash your hands, and eat calmly. That’s using your mind and not just your feelings.

The same goes for feelings about your body or about liking someone. You can choose how to act. You can think: “Is this kind? Is this respectful? Is this the right time?” That’s what makes you powerful.

Growing Up Means Learning

It’s okay to feel things. You’re not weird or bad. It just means you’re growing up — and growing up takes learning.

The goal is not to be scared of your feelings, but to learn how to drive your own car — your car is your body and mind. And you get to decide where it goes.

Remember: You can feel things, and still make good choices. And when you do that, you grow into someone kind, strong, and wise.

That’s what being a great human is all about.

你们知道吗？我们每个人来到这个世界上，都是因为一个特别的生命魔法：叫“性”。听起来有点不好意思？其实完全不需要哦！这不是脏东西，也不是坏事，而是生命本来的样子。就像一棵树是从种子长出来的，小动物们也是从妈妈肚子里出生的，我们人类，也是在爸爸妈妈相爱之后来到这个世界的。所以，“性”是一件美好的事。

但是 - 

随着长大，我们会慢慢发现，身体会有一些新的感受，有时候你会对某些事情特别好奇，比如亲密、喜欢、触碰……这些感觉，是身体的一部分，叫做“本能”。动物也有本能，小狗饿了会叫，小鸟困了会睡觉，人也一样。我们都有一些天生的需要：比如吃饭、睡觉、喜欢别人……还有，就是对“性”的好奇。

可是，人和动物又有些不一样

动物只会本能地听从身体的命令，而我们人类有一个独特的“超能力” - 叫做选择。比如很饿的时候，你当然可以抓起东西就吃，但你也可以先洗手、坐好、慢慢吃。这样的选择叫“用主动意识生活”。

同样地，长大后面对身体的感受，你可以像动物一样立刻行动，也可以先想一想：我真的需要吗？这会伤害别人吗？这是一种尊重别人也尊重自己的方式。

我们在学习长大

你不需要对自己的身体感到害羞，更不需要因为有感受而觉得自己不好。你只是正在长大，有很多东西要慢慢学习。而我们长大的过程，不是压抑自己，而是学会做自己的主人。就像开车一样，是你来掌握方向盘，而不是让车自己乱开。

所以记住：你可以有感受，你也可以做选择。而当你学会有意识地对待自己的身体和心，那就是变得成熟、温柔、有力量的过程。那正是我们来到这个世界，作为人，最美妙的地方。